Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder...

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.............

What does it really means?

Different people will think of it differently.

Man or woman...

Guy or girl...

Gentleman or lady...

All will have different perspectives on it.

Firstly, let us try to clear up what it means by beauty.

Beauty...

Something very subjective

There is no real meaning for it because it depends on the one who sees and defines it.

Some may say that beauty is synonym with woman.

‘A woman’s beauty is like a blood-red rose, blooming after the rain in spring.’

Some may say that beauty is about their appearances’.

“Argh...I got small lips! Plastic surgery I’m on my way. I want to look as beautiful as Angelina Jolie,”

Some may even say that it is all about how one present herself in front of others.

“You look gorgeous in that dress. It’s like it is made especially for you,”

For me, beauty is a gift from God but in different forms for every different people and all of us need to appreciate and guard it no matter how. It can be physically, mentally or personality. The most true and pure beauty for me is a beautiful heart. It counts the most even when you lack in appearance and IQ. Beautiful figure and high level of IQ are bonuses.

Beauty really has a wide definition and scope.

Next, what does it really means by the phrase ‘Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder’?

One can interpret it as there is no real beauty but the true beauty can be seen from the one who sincerely shows it.

But some doesn’t have to show it because the beauty inside her shines through her inside to the outside.

I love this point of view...

But who am I to judge what others think.

Lets us try to look from loves’ perspective his time.

A guy friend came and sits with me one day and started to ask about how did her girlfriend looks like. In other words, he wanted to know my comments towards his new girlfriend...

A question popped out immediately from my mouth...

“What about her looks?”

He frowned and hesitated for a minute.

“Just want to know your opinion on her looks from a girl point of view. So, what do you think?”

My girls’ pride was a bit hurt at that moment.

“Before I can answer your question, can you honestly answer this one question first?”

“Yeah, sure,”

“How do you choose your girlfriend?”

He started to look confused.

“Ermm...I’m not sure. Maybe because she looks attractive in my eyes and all of the other guys fall for her but I’m the lucky one to be her boyfriend,”

“So, you choose a girl just because of that reasons? Wow, you really ask the wrong person here. As a girl, when somebody chooses us to be their special ones’ based on looks, that hurts a lot.”

Can you all see that there is a conflict in different people’s point of view especially between different genders about beauty and love?

How to judge the love when there is an issue of beauty lies between it?

Most guys prefer a beautiful girl to be his girlfriend and vice versa.

For the guys who prefer beauty, there’s nothing to be shame about.

It’s just a natural thing for a guy to be attracted to a beautiful girl.

In other word, it’s karma.

And for the guys that prefer less beauty girls, there are also a lot of reasons of doing so.

That’s also a natural thing.


Next time we will try to discover what is the relationship between beauty and heart...